LEM doesnt find my node (cisco router) i can send syslog messages to my PC using Kiwi just fine, what am i doing wrong?

It might be that there aren't enough messages yet for the scan for new nodes to pick it up. You can always configure a connector manually from Manage > Appliances > Gear on the left > Connectors. There's a Cisco IOS connector there that you can add manually (Gear > New), the logging paths match up with the local facility (e.g. local2 = /var/log/local2.log, local7 = /var/log/local7.log).

It might be that there aren't enough messages yet for the scan for new nodes to pick it up. You can always configure a connector manually from Manage > Appliances > Gear on the left > Connectors. There's a Cisco IOS connector there that you can add manually (Gear > New), the logging paths match up with the local facility (e.g. local2 = /var/log/local2.log, local7 = /var/log/local7.log).