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Artist Agnes Martin said,

“Fulfill your potential. That’s the way to happiness.”

I was drawn to consider the word fulfill because it reminds me of another word that holds great meaning for me: effort. I believe in making an effort, showing up, doing the hard work that has to be done, because work that is hard is fulfilling. There is fulfillment in effort, even on the smallest scale. The word “fulfill” is usually tied to the word “dreams,” but I prefer less lofty aspirations, at least for now. Instead, my path to happiness – while my children are young – is guided by the hard work I do as a mother. There is magic in the mundane, I have learned, if you pay attention. And if you do the work. So step up, make an effort, and fulfill your potential, however you define that for yourself. Until you do, happiness will likely elude you.

Parents
  • Years ago I was gifted a copy of Material World a book by Peter Menzel. In turn I've gifted copies of it to others. The book is a photo essay of over 50 families built around a portrait of each family with all of their material possessions. There is no correlation between possessions and happiness (I'm sure no one is surprised by that) and level of fulfillment seems to trend with relationships between family members and the larger community. In my own life I feel incredibly fortunate to be part of a loving and supportive family. Only recently have I had any sense of fulfillment in my professional life, and while I know from personal experience that its possible to have a happy home life and work at a job that you don't like, I had to be sure not to take work home with me. I don't doubt that there are people who find all the fulfillment they need from work. The trick for me has always been balancing the two.

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  • Years ago I was gifted a copy of Material World a book by Peter Menzel. In turn I've gifted copies of it to others. The book is a photo essay of over 50 families built around a portrait of each family with all of their material possessions. There is no correlation between possessions and happiness (I'm sure no one is surprised by that) and level of fulfillment seems to trend with relationships between family members and the larger community. In my own life I feel incredibly fortunate to be part of a loving and supportive family. Only recently have I had any sense of fulfillment in my professional life, and while I know from personal experience that its possible to have a happy home life and work at a job that you don't like, I had to be sure not to take work home with me. I don't doubt that there are people who find all the fulfillment they need from work. The trick for me has always been balancing the two.

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